This is a pretty touchy subject, so I'll begin with the following: whatever you choose to do as a warm body with the cold corpse you'll turn into is your own business, and that's worth respecting. Burial, cremation, Viking funeral, whatever– it's the last request you can make of your surviving friends & kin, so they owe it to you to make sure you're laid down to rest in a way that represents you best.
With that in mind, we've got a pretty wild dispatch from the cemeteries of Moore. From KOCO:
MOORE, Okla. — Regina Johnson and Shawna Bray were ready to bury their mother Saturday at a Moore cemetery when they made a horrific discovery.
Their mother's grave was covered in a pool of water nearly 7 inches deep.
"We wanted to be there for our mom," Bray said. "This is the last thing we can do for our mom, and that was taken from us."
Johnson said she jumped out of a moving car to see what was going on when she and her sister arrived at the cemetery.
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(Freeze frame at woman jumping from a moving car at a funeral)