Perhaps the most difficult thing about marriage is that point every evening where your partner asks you what's for dinner, as if it's some innocuous question and not an absolute declaration of war.
Admittedly, Lexapro has helped me see that perhaps this isn't something my husband does to start a fight. In fact, since we both eat dinner every night, it actually makes sense to discuss what we'll have!
But the fact remains, I rarely know the answer to that question, and it's a heavy mental load.